Hexagram 38 of 64 · King Wen sequence
睽 · kuí
Fire above the lake: two eyes looking opposite ways — difference that cannot be argued into sameness, only worked with.
Fire rises, the lake stays low: two natures looking away from each other. Opposition is the hexagram of irreconcilable difference — not a conflict to win, but a divergence to work with in small matters, as the text puts it.
Its counsel is modest and profound: in small matters, working with difference succeeds. Small gestures, indirect approaches, meeting in the minor tasks where opposites can still cooperate. The wild horse and the pig are drawn out not by force, but by what they recognise.
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